:: jotting the lines ::

我的精神崩溃了。
我是中了邪吗？

I got an email titled - What “Oprah said about Men”. I don’t know where is the source as it was not stated in the email. Anyway just read it as a piece of advice from an experienced mid-age woman . It is still nothing to loose.

- If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
- If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
- Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.
- Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
- Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be.
- Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
- If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends”. A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
- Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
- Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
- The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
- Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
- He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
- Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
- Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
- Never let a man know everything; He will use it against you later.
- You cannot change a man’s behavior.
- Change comes from within.
- Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are…even if he has more education or in a better job.
- Do not make him into a quasi-god.
- He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
- Never let a man define who you are.
- Never borrow someone else’s man.
- If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
- A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
- All men are NOT dogs.
- You should not be the one doing all the bending… compromise is two way street.
- You need time to heal between relationships…there is nothing cute about baggage…
- Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
- You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you…
- A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals…
- Look for someone complimentary…not supplementary.
- Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.
- Make him miss you sometimes…when a man always know where you are, and you’re always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
- Never move into his mother’s house. Never co-sign for a man.
- Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need.
- Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
- Share this with other women and men (just so they know)… You’ll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.
- They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

So Men, what do you think now?

Wahhh… my car plate number is on first prize at Sportstoto today! After 5 months only got first prize.

Assuming I buy RM1 big and RM1 small for 3 times a week.

RM6 ringgit x 1 Week.
5 Months = Approx 22 weeks.
22 Weeks = 132 Ringgit.

1st Prize won for RM1 and RM1 = RM6,000.00

Not bad not bad…still earn!

Ahem..but don’t ask me to treat you a big feast.

Because I didn’t buy any 4D or lottery. Dang….

Which religion are you?

Stumbled across the Stupid Me Me section @ Shaolintiger.com and found this quiz interesting.

My score is

You scored as Christianity. Your views are most similar to those of Christianity. Do more research on Christianity and possibly consider being baptized and accepting Jesus, if you aren’t already Christian. Christianity is the second of the Abrahamic faiths; it follows Judaism and is followed by Islam. It differs in its belief of Jesus, as not a prophet nor historical figure, but as God in human form. The Holy Trinity is the concept that God takes three forms: the Father, the Son (Jesus), and the Holy Ghost (sometimes called Holy Spirit). Jesus taught the idea of instead of seeking revenge, one should love his or her neighbors and enemies. Christians believe that Jesus died on the cross to save humankind and forgive people’s sins. Christianity 83% Judaism 63% Buddhism 38% Paganism 33% Islam 29% atheism 25% agnosticism 25% Satanism 21% Hinduism 4%

Which religion is the right one for you? (new version)
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By answering all the quiz questions doesn’t make you a living Christian/ Buddhist/ Hinduist and etc. You can always choose “extreme disagree” or “extreme agree” when you don’t believe any statement in the quiz.

Religion is always on top of the debate list, I don’t know why. Perhaps I know why but I choose not to entertain the question. You still get men’s answer afterall.

My younger sis is looking for a part time job during her year-end break. And she thought she got it since everything has been confirmed to her verbally. As she was ready to go to work this afternoon, she received a phone call from her so-to-call supervisor. The supervisor said he just received a memo from the management that they cannot recruit any under aged (17 and below) personnel. Opps…my sister is 16+, sad thing.

What even ridiculous was my mom said my sister should take my details for her employment registration.
WT… F heck?

How can my sis do that? Does my mom know she is speaking non-sense and my sister can be considered in violating the labour law? I was shocked when she bursted out the words. I mean has she ever think before she speak? I argued with her and said this will lead both your daughters into trouble. She fought back and said I was the stupid one. I mean….what is in her mind? See …when come to $, this is all she can think of.

Is she over clouded by MONEY or what?

Added: Still, she is my mom….
Title changed to show some respect to her.