Come hug me
I need a hug, a very tight and warm hug. Would you hug me?
I have been very stressed with work lately. Kinda burn out, tried every method I learnt from the EQ class to destress. It doesn’t really work though. I know what would help best, a hug. But I can’t just simply go and ask anyone to hug me. I would probably go insane if I did that. I miss the time I stayed in Melbourne. Although life wasn’t that great and smooth during those days, I had my housemates and friends to support me. I would run to upstairs the moment I stepped into Drummond 125. I would run to my housemates and hug them.
HUGS is the most effective destress therapy for me. Nothing seem to be too hard to resolve and you believe you have friends to care and love you no matter how tough the issue is.
Back here is a bit different. I still live with my parents. My parents are great ones! However I won’t show my downfall to them. Moreover Asian parents are usually less expressive, they don’t hug you every time.
And perhaps I am still single and have not really involved in relationship before. Thus, I don’t really know the taste of it. I heard it is sweet when you can have another shoulder to lean on. I heard it is sour when you see your loved ones having meals with the opposite sex alone. I also heard it will taste hot and spicy when one betrays their loved one. When will it get bitter? I don’t know, maybe when there isn’t any hope to rescue the relationship?
So back to the huggng, my topic today.
I am already thinking who I can hug even for now!
They are all very far from me now. Please don’t get the wrong idea, I am not interested in long distance relationship. Most of them are scattered around Malaysia, one is in the south of Peninsular Malaysia now. But since he just recently get attached, it isn’t nice to do that anymore. We gotta be considerate over other’s feelings. Then, another is in the north. I just hugged him a few days back. Sadly to say, we are even further apart now. He will be leaving to overseas for work.
The other two who used to remedied me are still left working in the Downunder. Then how about those in KL? One also don’t have ar? Maybe not for now. 
Then how about my girl friends? Never mind about them since they don’t check out my blog AT ALL.
Boy’s hug is more effective than Girl’s hug. You know why? “They” don’t bounce, so it is very comfortable.
Seriously, I need a hug.
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